Love more then 1 person ... yes Be committed to more then 1 person ... no, not so much (that's if committment is define with an exclusivity clause) And in this equation love does not necessarily equal committment. Smiles Excellent response. I agree I am sad to say.
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Can/Should someone be in love with more than one person?
by AK - Jeff innot a question that affects me personally - i am dutifully bound to a single woman now for 33 years [omg that is 1/3 of a century already].. but do you believe that it is possible or profitalble to fall in love with more than one person at the same time?
in western culture it is normally considered 'betrayal' to do such a thing - but thoughout history and in cultures outside of the west today - it is considered acceptable, even normal.. typically it is the man who has more love interests than just one - not the woman - but some cultures have supported multiple partners for women also.
this is not a thread about judging others - just an inquiry about opinion.
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Can/Should someone be in love with more than one person?
by AK - Jeff innot a question that affects me personally - i am dutifully bound to a single woman now for 33 years [omg that is 1/3 of a century already].. but do you believe that it is possible or profitalble to fall in love with more than one person at the same time?
in western culture it is normally considered 'betrayal' to do such a thing - but thoughout history and in cultures outside of the west today - it is considered acceptable, even normal.. typically it is the man who has more love interests than just one - not the woman - but some cultures have supported multiple partners for women also.
this is not a thread about judging others - just an inquiry about opinion.
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Love more then 1 person ... yes Be committed to more then 1 person ... no, not so much (that's if committment is define with an exclusivity clause) And in this equation love does not necessarily equal committment. Smiles Excellent response. I agree I am sad to say.
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My wife left me two weeks ag
by littlemike ini dont post on here that often but look everyday.. i used to be an elder and left the witnesses 5 years ago.
my wife left 6 years ago.. in my opinion my wife and i have had the best 5 years of our lives because we have been married 28 years.. after 28 years of marriage she sent me a text you need to go home there is a letter on our bed.
in the letter she clearly states she has left me because she does not love me in the real way.
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Sad as undoubtably it is, only a fool would leave a happy relationship. if you think about it there will have been signs that all was not well. When my marriage broke up i was amazed at the number of times friends said "but you were so happy". Little did they know. Many relationships just carry on day to day without either party being aware they are not satisfied until a third party comes along and the realisation dawns. You will move on and find hapiness if you let go.
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Isn't Jehovah a wonderful God?
by nvrgnbk inwhen i look around at all the people in the world, i'm comforted to know that jehovah will soon destroy them.. i'm talking about people that don't attend our encouraging christian meetings.
yes, people that don't zealously participate in the preaching of the good news.
'what good news?
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He is up there with Allah and the rest. Thank jehovah for the true almighty the $
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Back to the topic - I am in love with a JW
by LindaLu ini have been dating a very committed jw - he spent some time out of the organisation after a divorce and about a year ago has been granted a fellowship again.
i absolutely adore him - and what is there not to love!
he is the most kind, sweet and lovable man i have ever met.
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I will not go into detail as it is too complicated but I am besotted with a beautiful JW girl who has told me without reserve that we have no future together because of her beliefs and family situation. Neither of us can give the other up though we have tried but we are pathetic apart and separation lasts only minutes or hours. We are both leading shady double lives becuase of the situation. Were she not a JW we would now be together. I know she is going against everything her beliefs stand for by seeing me. One day I hope one of us will be big enough to finish it.